Encounter a tantalizing afternoon of introspection and exploration. Prepare to expand your mind…and walk away ready to be and find, yourself, fulfilled!

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Houston Oct 21

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Self Discovery Through Kink & Fetish

-What is your intention; A call to action-

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MODERATOR: Ray Dalton

OUR PRESENTERS: (full bios below)

Malakaai - Discipline Dominant

Sir Ang - Staples Demo

Matt Coven - Clothespins & Sensory

Ryan Sebastian - Throat Training & Breath Control

Each presenter & submissive will demonstrate a kink then speak on the life affirming benefits of that kink, followed by a Q & A.

TIX $35 (GLUE Discount)click for tix

Location: KIKI

2409 Grant St Unit D, Houston TX 77004

Oct 21 2023

1pm til 3:30pm

1pm Ray Dalton: Intro & Agreements, “Who Am I” Exercise (a 5-10 min exercise to discover who you really are in life)

1:30pm Malakaai: Establishing Protocol. Then QnA.

2pm Sir Ang: Staples Demo. Sir Ang will have two demo bottoms, and will be doing an energy pull with staples. Then QnA.

2:30pm Matt Coven: Clothespins combined with sensory deprivation (hooded sub) and a surprise finale! Then QnA.

3pm Ryan Sebastian: Throat Training combined with Breath Control (includes: tips on how to be a better cocksucker!)Then QnA.

3:30pm Workshop completes

-Ray Dalton as moderator, will be commenting on the demos, asking presenters questions, engaging with and fielding questions from the audience.

-In the intro to this workshop you will discover who you are, unleashing your ability to thrive and live your authentic lives. This in return makes you someone who is a better life partner, friend and lover.

-Presenters and submissives will discuss the potential life-wellness benefits of each kink & fetish.

-We ask questions few are willing to ask.

PRESENTERS’ BIOS:

Daddy Rod

A native New Yorker, Daddy Rod is the co-founder of the ONYX Mid-Atlantic Chapter, where he served first as President, and later as Pledge Master. Rod has also moderated and presented for a variety of programs and events, including giving the Keynote Address at the 2023 Colorado Leather Fest.  Rod created Beyond the Red Ribbon, the HIV/STI Prevention workshop developed specifically for the Leather and Kink lifestyle, and recently launched the podcast “Listen to Daddy” with fellow Leatherman, Daddy Rob.

Rod currently serves as a Researcher with Us Helping Us in Washington, DC. He also provides training in Sex Positivity and Pleasure-based Strategies to his colleagues in HIV and STI prevention.  Rod holds a Bachelors degree in Sociology and African-American studies, and will resume his graduate studies for his Masters in Education.  

Rod earned his first title as Leatherman of Color in 2011.  He is also honored and humbled to have served the Leather community as the American Leatherman 2017.

He is also proud of winning the Pantheon of Leather Northeast Regional Award for 2014, and the Pantheon Man of the Year Award in 2018. Rod’s kink fetishes include spanking, ass play, flogging and fisting.

SIR ANG

Sir Ang, (She/They), IMsL 2018, of House Fibonacci and Firedancers Dallas, is the creator of the Squirter flagging hanky. She has been nominated for a Pantheon of Leather award twice and the Australian LGBTI Hero award, and hopes one day soon, to finish the last few months of the Bachelor of Psychological Sciences that she started in Australia. Her latest passion project and fundraiser, the Condom Pocket, shares a little piece of Leather history and is raising money for AHF - AIDS Healthcare Foundation.

MATT COVEN

In 2018, Texas native Matt Coven co-founded The Coven Boys, a Houston based club of artists and sex workers. This brotherhood is devoted to collaborations artistically and financially within the Coven’s members and the greater community as a whole.

Matt Coven has been a Pro Dom since 2020. He is the owner of a private dungeon.

Although relatively new to the scene, Matt Coven is committed to the kink positive community in the Houston area and wherever his travels take him.

RYAN SEBASTIAN

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MALAKAAI

Malakaai is a muscle bull and Discipline Dominant who specializes in obedience training, protocol, regulation, praise and worship.

He focuses on techniques that amplify empathy between men within the Dominant/submissive hierarchy and dynamic.

In the LGBTQIA and leather communities, Malakaai educates, encourages, and empowers men to be the most capable version of themselves they aspire to be.  

RAY DALTON

Born in Dalton Ohio to a Mennonite family with Amish grandparents, Ray Dalton left the farm at age 18 after being excommunicated from the church for fornication. He moved to Los Angeles in 1989 which is his primary residence.

In 1995 Ray began his best life by getting sober. With 28 years in recovery, his search for purpose came though being a SEEKER. He found affirmation and inspiration in many sources like reading the books Conversations With God and The 4 Agreements. He found that working the 12 steps of recovery are practical everyday solutions for everyone. He studied and volunteered at Landmark Education and countless other sources. Ray found purpose in service which led him to becoming a trained certified Life Coach in 2008. Ray believes his best life comes from the principle “its not all about me! Every experience I encounter in my life is for the purpose of inspiration for myself and others.”

Ray began in the porn industry at age 40. He maintains his success stems from his intensely shameless sexuality coupled with a drug-free lifestyle. Ray’s motto in porn is “I don’t act” Authenticity is the antithesis to drug addiction no matter the context.

In 2018 Ray launched fornicationparty.com a drug-free sex-party for men to meet other drug-free guys. Fornication parties are currently thriving in 8 cities nationwide.

In 2021, 2022 & 2023 Ray produced 3-day Men’s Wellness Retreats at various campgrounds where he does demonstrations on sexual engagement & weelness. The weekends include panel discussion on topics ranging from Cruising & Consent, Living Shamelessly and Men’s Mental Heath and Aging with guest speakers that included a sex therapist, an MFT and numerous porn stars.

Launching Shameless Matters in 2023 was the next obvious progression in realizing his purpose.

Ray is currently creating MAIN (Male Adult Industry Network) launching in 2024. Fornication will then become a “fundraiser” for MAIN. The purpose of MAIN is to reduce suicide alcohol & drug abuse in the Adult Industries through mentorships and workshops/trainings.

Shameless Matters is designed for all genders

OUR CURRICULUM:

Exploring Sex, Sexuality, and Relationships

1. Men’s workshop 

2. Women’s workshop

3. Transgender Workshop 

4. Self Discovery through Kink & Fetish

5. Monogamy vs. Polyamory

6. Dating Workshop 

7. Platonic Relationships & Friendships 

8. Mentorships: Becoming a Mentor and Finding a Mentor

9. Leadership Workshop

10. Gay Cruising: Exploring Online Hookup Apps and In-person Etiquette

11. The Power of Choice: Exploring Intrinsic Choice and Consent

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